If a couple works, promotes emotional development and personal growth of both partners. It happens some times, however, that this positive effect inherent in the relationship is lost (or in some cases there is a difficulty in establishment from the start): The couple interact in ways that cause suffering to another. Each may focus on the faults of the other, the partners may mutually sharp set with discussions and quarrels with the feeling of misunderstanding each other without end.
What support and advice to couples ?
Support to pair encloses a series of interventions which are not aimed at judging who's wrong or who is right, but only to promote awareness in both partener special interactive dynamics that are developing in a relationship with particular the dynamics that ultimately maintain a state of suffering in the report (eg, special modes of communication or deposited on the unconscious expectations and their effects. impirtante for both partners is trying to understand what happens between them and how each contributes to block the possibilities of change
Couples therapy aims to restore, retrieve, or in some cases to give rise to those resources that allow the connection back to being a source of wealth for partners rather than a cause of suffering.
During a couples counseling, the goal is not to keep the couple together at all costs: in fact in some cases partners may get to decide to separate
