Currently there has been a new phenomenon in the face of misunderstandings, hardships and conflict between partners, the temptation is to "run" in virtual life.
Why groped to understand and be understood, with all the difficulties of the case, in a relationship when there is someone in the chat with whom we can do so without difficulty?
What is born as virtual friendship, if discomfort occurs within a couple can become virtual love.
With the known person of the opposite sex in chat, you get to share, often in parts of themselves, do not take part either with their partner.
friendly intimacy becomes more emotional and you get to "replace" emotionally and then to betray their partner.
When we talk about betrayal?
exclude, of course, the real betrayal occurs when knowledge from other virtual becomes real.
I think we can speak of a betrayal when the online level of "share" towards the other virtual exceeds a certain threshold.
boundary between friendship and the sharing of that pair is not equal for everyone, but changes according to situations and people involved.
limit that, theoretically, we might ask when the " us" virtual torque becomes dominant compared to single individuals, as that related to each them, private, must be able to maintain a certain emotional distance.
entities ego Instead of You and We, in real life poised between rampant individualism and all-encompassing mergers, the virtual trigger a shift of fusion, helped by the game that is on the reciprocal projections Typical of the reports online.
When, in the virtual relationship, the "us" takes over, the report be confidential, empathetic, passionate becomes in the sense that the presence of the chat is expected to be one expects a person in love, when the absence of the other, always chatting, anxiety becomes abandoned, is profiled here that the horizon is the betrayal.
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