Friday, June 4, 2010
Why Does My Cat's Butt Foam
If a couple works, promotes emotional development and personal growth of both partners. It happens some times, however, that this positive effect inherent in the relationship is lost (or in some cases there is a difficulty in establishment from the start): The couple interact in ways that cause suffering to another. Each may focus on the faults of the other, the partners may mutually sharp set with discussions and quarrels with the feeling of misunderstanding each other without end.
What support and advice to couples ?
Support to pair encloses a series of interventions which are not aimed at judging who's wrong or who is right, but only to promote awareness in both partener special interactive dynamics that are developing in a relationship with particular the dynamics that ultimately maintain a state of suffering in the report (eg, special modes of communication or deposited on the unconscious expectations and their effects. impirtante for both partners is trying to understand what happens between them and how each contributes to block the possibilities of change
Couples therapy aims to restore, retrieve, or in some cases to give rise to those resources that allow the connection back to being a source of wealth for partners rather than a cause of suffering.
During a couples counseling, the goal is not to keep the couple together at all costs: in fact in some cases partners may get to decide to separate
Thursday, June 3, 2010
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And stand together, but not too close to the pillars of the temple stand apart, And the oak tree and the cypress grow not in shadow.
Gibran
Monday, May 24, 2010
How To Make Your Pokemon Unshiny
Currently there has been a new phenomenon in the face of misunderstandings, hardships and conflict between partners, the temptation is to "run" in virtual life.
Why groped to understand and be understood, with all the difficulties of the case, in a relationship when there is someone in the chat with whom we can do so without difficulty?
What is born as virtual friendship, if discomfort occurs within a couple can become virtual love.
With the known person of the opposite sex in chat, you get to share, often in parts of themselves, do not take part either with their partner.
friendly intimacy becomes more emotional and you get to "replace" emotionally and then to betray their partner.
When we talk about betrayal?
exclude, of course, the real betrayal occurs when knowledge from other virtual becomes real.
I think we can speak of a betrayal when the online level of "share" towards the other virtual exceeds a certain threshold.
boundary between friendship and the sharing of that pair is not equal for everyone, but changes according to situations and people involved.
limit that, theoretically, we might ask when the " us" virtual torque becomes dominant compared to single individuals, as that related to each them, private, must be able to maintain a certain emotional distance.
entities ego Instead of You and We, in real life poised between rampant individualism and all-encompassing mergers, the virtual trigger a shift of fusion, helped by the game that is on the reciprocal projections Typical of the reports online.
When, in the virtual relationship, the "us" takes over, the report be confidential, empathetic, passionate becomes in the sense that the presence of the chat is expected to be one expects a person in love, when the absence of the other, always chatting, anxiety becomes abandoned, is profiled here that the horizon is the betrayal.